Get Fucking Going


You ever feel like you're sitting in a circle with people trying to figure out who has the worst life?OKAY before you jump to conclusions hear me out. Seriously, ask yourself if you've ever been with a group of people sharing war stories? You know the one where someone shares how sucky their life is and then someone chims in, girl that aint nothing - let me tell you what happened to me last week.

You know the type of conversations you have around the water cooler at work. The type of conversations you have over drinks with your girlfriends. Or when you're alone in front of the TV watching a melo dramatic series.

You see we tend to create a pity party for ourselves and invite anyone who is willing to attend and truth be told, the guest list is pretty long.

We feel like LIFE has to be a struggle. There is no such thing as a love that doesn't cut. There is no such thing as a smooth transition. We keep waiting for life to pound us into the ground before we wake up and realize that WE have the power to change everything.

Life is simple. You are not re-inventing the wheel.

Life has been done before. OVER and OVER. Although your situation may be uniquely different, it's not. A struggle is a struggle.

Everyone hasn't been given the same advantages to success as everyone else but keep in mind: their are 583 billionaires in the US, 363(62%) are Self Made.

Don't Tell ME You Can't Do This!

It's like we want to wear our struggles as a badge of honor for making it through. When truthfully we are INSANE for repeatedly NOT learning the lesson and moving on.

We go from one crappy situation to the next and wondering why things havent change. THINGS won't change until you decide you want more.

The more I deep dive into the personal devlopment world, I realize people struggle to see what's possible. They feel like they need to come up with the NEXT NEW biggest idea to change their lives and that's not true.

Here are a few EXTRAORDINARY people who created success for themselves.

Arnold Schwarzenegger- He was an Austrian bodybuilder, who moved to American at more fame and fortune. He got just that- not only did he win champinships but he became a top selling Actor, Producter and later a Governor of California because he believed in himself.

Steve Harvey quit his day job after winning a $50 Comedy open mic competition. Harvey had a wife and twins to support but he knew Comedy was his passion. Steve lived in his car for 3 years and struggled to make it as a comedian but he never gave up. He is now a success Author, Talk Show Host, Producer and radio personailty amoung other things. You cannot turn on the TV without seeing his face. He is a contest reminder that ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.

Oprah Winfrey- The name speaks for itself and her day time talk show spanned for 25 years and she is currently running her own TV network. Oprah is an author, actor, philanthropist and motivational speaker. Oprah is an inspiration to everyone because she grew up in rural Mississippi and her grandmother told her "she should pray to find a White family, who will treat her good and give her left overs" but despite her upbringing she became a self mad billionaire. She defied the odds and became the Queen of Media!


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