I don’t think I understood until about a year ago that it wasn’t as much about toxic men choosing ME but ME also choosing them.
Choosing to ignore the red flags and fall in love with their potential. Because I was craving love and attention. So I CHOOSE to stick around in hopes that he would love me - the way I needed to be loved.
And now I can see that I didn’t have a clear understanding of what love actually looked like - so when I heard those 3 powerful words ( I LOVE YOU) I automatically accepted it as truth.
Even though the actions didn’t line up.
And I know you can relate to this.
We have all stayed in toxic Relationships (business, romantic, friendships, family) in hope of receiving the love and support we desire, only to come up short and question what to do next.
And I’m here to remind you that BETTER is available to you whenever you are ready to receive it. But you’re gonna have to make space for it.
You can’t call in more if you’re overworked and overwhelmed with what you have now. Stop being afraid of taking out the trash - it’s funky and it smells bad. It isn’t doing you any good.
Let it go.
Here is a quick 60 second video I recorded to help you begin releasing toxic attachments to your previous relationships using EFT.