Worse Case Sh!ft
OMG I’ve eaten cup of noodles - one to many times and it’s time for me to call it quits and move back to NYC. LA is’t working out - I’m not getting along with my roommate or making any money in my business. My life is a disaster - how could I ever look myself in the mirror again.
LITERALLY- that is the worst case scenario for me if I go to LA and things don’t work out according to plan.
Sound Familiar? Are you prone to planning out EVERY single thing that could potentially go wrong?
As I prepare myself for LA, I can’t help but have mini breakdowns - trying to figure out if I’m making the right decisions when in reality - I’m afraid of public failure.
If my worst case did unfortunately become true my life would be no better or no worse. I wasn’t living in LA before and now I’m not. I would be right back at square on
e. Looking at the drawing board - trying to figure out what I will do next.
Than I realized what I was most afraid of was proving people right (those people who didn’t believe I could do it).
I’m afraid of hearing I told you so.
I’m afraid of hearing the you made a mistake.
I’m afraid of what other people will say if it does’t work out.
I’m afraid of being embarrassed because everyone would have known it didn’t work out for me.
When honestly I need to ACCEPT that the opinions of others is none of my business.
I’m living MY LIFE according to my vision. I am living for myself and no one else.
I DON’T NEED TO BE AFRAID OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE WILL SAY.
I need to be afraid of what will happen if I don’t do this. If I choose to NOT go what will my life be like.
I’m more afraid of waking up 6 months from NOW in the same position. Wishing I could change when MY life when I have ALL the power to do so but I’m just too scared to take action.
This is a reminder to you - DON’T BE AFRID OF YOUR WORST CASE SCENARIO - BE AFRAID OF WAKING UP A YEAR FROM NOW AND HAVING NOT GROWN.
Imagine still living in the same apartment - the same relationships - the same salary - the same job - the same car - the problems 5 YEARS FROM NOW?
DON’T focus on all the things that can go wrong - focus on how INCREDIBLE it will feel once things go right. Live in the moment, don’t dwell on a future that isn’t what you want.
FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY!
Journaling Exercise: Write out what your NEXT level looks like? If you took that LEAP of faith - what’s the best possible outcome? How will you feel? What will your life look like?
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