All Men Are Not Trash

HOT TAKE: It’s not that all men are trash.

You’re just not here for a numbers game.

You’re not craving “attention.”

You’re craving one soul.

One safe connection.

One man who feels like home and desire.

But be honest…

You still identify as the girl who:

• gets chosen last

• gets almost-love

• gets breadcrumbed

• gets abandoned the second she starts to care

So guess what?

You keep attracting men who match that story.

Not because you’re cursed.

Not because love is hard.

Not because “good men don’t exist.”

But because your nervous system is loyal to what’s familiar.

And if abandonment is your blueprint…

you will keep mistaking red flags for butterflies.

The red flags will be screaming.

But he’s tall.

He’s cute.

He makes money.

He has that little smile that makes you forget your own name.

So you ignore the obvious…

Because boredom feels worse than disrespect.

And that’s the part nobody wants to admit.